new lessons both learned and needed!.....

       Life is a learning experience.  Some lessons are taught.
some are experienced and some must be driven in with a
hammer.  However they are a daily occurrence for most of us.
Just a few recent ones.......

   Pants..   Pants are a necessity.    Each day I like to start the
day with a quick shower.  Although pants aren't required for
this particular task I have found that it is absolutely necessary
to put them on right after.  I have tried putting on sweats or
lounging pajamas and such but once your bum has a touch of
soft comfort I can assure you that your day is done.  At no point
are you going to be willing to part with that comfort to put on
heavy stiff jeans to go out and face the outside world.  So unless
your one who shops casually at Walmart in your PJ's .. your not
leaving the house !

Polar opposites..    No matter how compatible a couple may be
originally, certain opposing factors will develop and we must
learn to either accept them or train ourselves to adapt to the
others way of thinking.  Example.. we all have 'lazy days'
A day when we feel like vegetating in a chair or on the sofa
doing nothing at all.  I will guarantee that this will be the one
day your mate will awake full up pep and vigor and decide to
rearrange the world and repair every little thing in and about
your home.  Including washing your comfy snuggle throw that
is so necessary for your mid morning nap!

Need to learn...
I think one of the things I need to work on is not feeling the
need to reply to every post on social media.   People get the
impression I think that I set her at the computer all day.  That
is not always true.  today for example ( a sweat pants day... see above)
I have,since starting this blog post,  made breakfast, did dishes.
moved furniture in a spare room, painted a wall in said room,
wished two people a happy birthday, made a few comments on
Face Book and given out two belly rubs to the dogs.  I do check
my computer every time I walk by and usually make a comment
or two.  I think I sometimes annoy people by commenting too
often so I'm working on that but then I've always been the pesky
type and old habits are hard to break.  At least some of the You
Tubers I chat with daily haven't known me long enough to know
what a pest I can be so they make for a fresh audience.  I thought
of setting up a code for my contacts that they could type in something
to warn me without actually telling me to shut up..lol  Maybe I'll work
on that.